How absurd that is?

So I've spent the last two hours listening to bitcoin podcasts while looking for online retailers to pay with bitcoin.

How absurd is it, that all I hear is how there is so much development in the space, that the community is amazing, but can't find a single place on the whole internet to spend it? Every single web store use a processor: coinbase, paypal, whatever middleman. Even bitpay.com has a list of retailers supposedly, checked a couple of them: all we can buy are gift cards.

Where are all the bitcoiners? Why can't anyone just accept it on their businesses? If I can install a wallet on my phone and receive payments via QR code, why can't they? It is not about difficulty.

We are NOT winning guys.